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by Kim Wilkish

Refill Your Energy Well

Take Time to Rest

Rest is important to refresh and to refill your energy well. 

You may think that you don’t have time to rest or that you only can truly rest when you go on vacation.  

Taking little time outs to pause and rest to renew your energy is key to your mental health, productivity and stress level. 

We tend to focus on managing our time rather than our energy.

Everything we do requires energy. 

Often you hear people say you need to fuel your body.  Food is fuel. What we eat for food makes a difference in terms of how we feel and the amount of energy we have.

Managing your energy is much more effective.

Schedule tasks based on your energy 

If you schedule more difficult tasks when your energy level is high, then you’re more apt to be productive and get it done. 

You can schedule to easier tasks when your energy level is lower as they don’t require as much energy to complete

When you have tasks completed your mind doesn’t spend as much energy trying to keep track of everything that needs to get done. 

Brain Dump

An effective way to calm your brain and lower your stress response is to do a brain dump.  

A brain dump is a simple exercise where you write down all of the items that are on your mind on paper.  Once you capture them on paper, you can release your mind from trying to keep track and remember everything and frees up energy. 

Renew Your Energy Menu

Make yourself a menu of things you can do that brings you energy

Then hang it up as a reminder and take a few moments a day to refresh your energy well.

Some Refresh and Reset Menu ideas for you to get started:

  • Go for a walk or a drive
  • Go outside and feel the sun on your face
  • Listen to some music
  • Eat a healthy snack
  • Drink some water
  • Dance in your kitchen 
  • Listen to a podcast
  • Take a shower 
  • Take a quick nap
  • Sit in quiet for 5 minutes
  • Visit a bookstore and wander through the aisles
  • Window shop
  • Go to a farm stand and buy a piece of fruit
  • Take 10 minutes and clear the clutter 
  • Watch fish swim in an aquarium
  • Savor a piece of dark chocolate
  • Make a cup of tea, sip slowly and savor
  • Look at a beautiful piece of art
  • Do 10 jumping jacks in place
  • Read a book for pleasure

Filed Under: personal leadership, well-being

by Kim Wilkish

WFH in Summer

Working from Home (WFH)

I think one of the most challenging things to do during summer is to work from home especially if you have kids.

What to do with kids

What do you do with your kids when you’re working?

How do you keep the kids busy? Especially when you need to be on a video conference call or in a meeting.

Tips for dealing with kids

Keep in mind the age and uniqueness of your child

  • Set up a schedule with activities when you need to be on a ‘call’ Reading time, doing a puzzle, art craft, coloring
  • Put a reward system in place for good behavior during times when you are “on” and can’t be interrupted.
  • Have snacks & lunch prepared ahead of time
  • If you’re able have someone help you, split up the day so you can have some focused time
  • Get the kids outside to burn some energy off
  • Help develop your child’s ability to be self-sufficient when it comes to certain things (age, maturity & ability dependent).
  • Have a signal for when you shouldn’t be disturbed unless someone is hurt, bleeding, etc..
  • Have a sign or sticky note on the door to signal you’re busy
  • If it’s too quiet, you know what I mean if you’re a parent, then by all means go check on the kids to see what they are up to…

Things you can do:

  • Have a designated place where you are able to work or at least take conference calls /meetings with minimally distraction
  • Set a work schedule for yourself & communicate it with your boss and team
  • Structure your day
  • Define what starts your “work day” & ends your work day
As an example, I’d scan email on my phone, go out and get a coffee, come home, throw in a load of laundry in the washer then sit down at my laptop and start working. 

I’d take a break and throw the laundry into the dryer, check on the kids then return to work. My next break would be at lunch time. I’d eat, take a walk outside, come in, fold the laundry then log back into work. 

I’d end my day at the same time and shut down my computer.

Just because you are at home doesn’t mean you have to work all the time. Find what works best for you and your family and end your workday. It’ll still be there tomorrow.
  • Do what is most important and a priority
  • Check email only 2x a day

I didn’t always do this. I used to have my email open all day and respond to things in the moment.

When I changed my approach, I was surprised at how much time it freed up for me and how my stress level was lowered. When I’d check my email towards to end of my day, I would start from the bottom up.

I found that most of the items that came in my inbox had resolved themselves. I didn’t need to take action on many of them.

If you have email open all day, you’re probably being reactive rather than focusing on the key things you need to get done.

Tips for keeping sane WFH

  • Use communication tools
  • to communicate & socially interact with people
  • Set boundaries and expectations
    • Such as breaks between back to back calls/meetings
    • When you’ll be on & offline
    • Your availability for meetings
  • Communicate your boundaries
  • Take breaks
  • Turn your devices off at the end of your workday
  • Shut off notifications
  • Get outside; take a fresh air break or sanity break
  • Be organized
  • Just because others on the team are workaholics and choose to work all hours of the day, doesn’t mean you need to.

Filed Under: personal fundamentals, personal leadership, Uncategorized, well-being

by Kim Wilkish

Treat Yourself

Do something nice for you

A “treat” is a small pleasure or indulgence that we give to ourselves.

When we give ourselves treats, we feel energized, cared for and contented. It’s a form of self-care. 

Some ideas to treat yourself

  • Take something you would ordinarily do and make it extraordinary
    • Take yourself out to dinner 
    • Order take out and use your best dishes
  • Take a bubble bath
  • Have a glass of champagne
  • Savor a piece of really good chocolate
  • Read a book for pleasure
  • Allow yourself to rest and do nothing.
  • Disconnect and unplug from technology
  • Give yourself the day off (mental day/sick day)
  • Pick or buy yourself flowers
  • Light a candle
  • Go to a favorite place
  • Let the sun shine on your face
  • Use the things you save for special occasions
  • Do something you love and make it the priority of the day

Filed Under: personal leadership, well-being

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