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by Kim Wilkish

Goodbye 2020

I haven’t met one person who isn’t looking forward to saying goodbye to 2020. It surely has been a challenging year for everyone due to Covid.

We have all had to make sacrifices. We celebrated holidays and birthdays differently. Our kids had remote school and learned about using video conferencing tools such as zoom. Some had relationships flourish and others had ones that diminished.

Lessons of 2020

There were some good things that happened too. I spent more time with my daughter and husband. Even though there were times we drove each other crazy, our relationships flourished.

We introduced my daughter to James Bond and watched many of the movies. We learned interesting facts about jellyfish and other sea animals such as walrus, whales and dolphins.

My daughter learned of some of my husband and I’s childhood hobbies of listening to music, reading books and drawing. Her repertoire of music expanded and she went back in time to the 80s and 90s.

She learned the value of spending time outside the house whether it was to go for a walk around the yard or a quick scenic drive around town.

She learned to appreciate relationships with her friends as she made new ones over quarantine and strengthened old ones when she was able to go back to school in person.

She learned personal responsibility regarding keeping up with her school work, working on a computer and using zoom like her parents have done before all of this transpired.

I’m hopeful for our future. We have vaccines to help this pandemic. Though we know we will still have Covid into 2021 and need to wear masks, social distance etc. there is a new appreciation for what we have that really matters. Thank you 2020 for your lessons and Goodbye!

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by Kim Wilkish

Are you Listening?

Listening isn’t always easy to do.

It requires you to pay attention and actually hear what someone is saying.

Listening is a skill

As a leader, listening to your people, peers and community is critical.

Leaders often are isolated and removed from the day to day operations. So, listening allows you to address issues before they become real problems and cause harm. Morale issues, business and interpersonal problems can often be solved quickly by listening and taking quick action.

People want to be heard.

When staff feels ignored their productivity, morale and problem solving abilities are all impacted which has impact on getting things done.

Good Leaders Listen.

Filed Under: leadership principles, personal leadership, Uncategorized

by Kim Wilkish

WFH in Summer

Working from Home (WFH)

I think one of the most challenging things to do during summer is to work from home especially if you have kids.

What to do with kids

What do you do with your kids when you’re working?

How do you keep the kids busy? Especially when you need to be on a video conference call or in a meeting.

Tips for dealing with kids

Keep in mind the age and uniqueness of your child

  • Set up a schedule with activities when you need to be on a ‘call’ Reading time, doing a puzzle, art craft, coloring
  • Put a reward system in place for good behavior during times when you are “on” and can’t be interrupted.
  • Have snacks & lunch prepared ahead of time
  • If you’re able have someone help you, split up the day so you can have some focused time
  • Get the kids outside to burn some energy off
  • Help develop your child’s ability to be self-sufficient when it comes to certain things (age, maturity & ability dependent).
  • Have a signal for when you shouldn’t be disturbed unless someone is hurt, bleeding, etc..
  • Have a sign or sticky note on the door to signal you’re busy
  • If it’s too quiet, you know what I mean if you’re a parent, then by all means go check on the kids to see what they are up to…

Things you can do:

  • Have a designated place where you are able to work or at least take conference calls /meetings with minimally distraction
  • Set a work schedule for yourself & communicate it with your boss and team
  • Structure your day
  • Define what starts your “work day” & ends your work day
As an example, I’d scan email on my phone, go out and get a coffee, come home, throw in a load of laundry in the washer then sit down at my laptop and start working. 

I’d take a break and throw the laundry into the dryer, check on the kids then return to work. My next break would be at lunch time. I’d eat, take a walk outside, come in, fold the laundry then log back into work. 

I’d end my day at the same time and shut down my computer.

Just because you are at home doesn’t mean you have to work all the time. Find what works best for you and your family and end your workday. It’ll still be there tomorrow.
  • Do what is most important and a priority
  • Check email only 2x a day

I didn’t always do this. I used to have my email open all day and respond to things in the moment.

When I changed my approach, I was surprised at how much time it freed up for me and how my stress level was lowered. When I’d check my email towards to end of my day, I would start from the bottom up.

I found that most of the items that came in my inbox had resolved themselves. I didn’t need to take action on many of them.

If you have email open all day, you’re probably being reactive rather than focusing on the key things you need to get done.

Tips for keeping sane WFH

  • Use communication tools
  • to communicate & socially interact with people
  • Set boundaries and expectations
    • Such as breaks between back to back calls/meetings
    • When you’ll be on & offline
    • Your availability for meetings
  • Communicate your boundaries
  • Take breaks
  • Turn your devices off at the end of your workday
  • Shut off notifications
  • Get outside; take a fresh air break or sanity break
  • Be organized
  • Just because others on the team are workaholics and choose to work all hours of the day, doesn’t mean you need to.

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