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by Kim Wilkish

WFH in Summer

Working from Home (WFH)

I think one of the most challenging things to do during summer is to work from home especially if you have kids.

What to do with kids

What do you do with your kids when you’re working?

How do you keep the kids busy? Especially when you need to be on a video conference call or in a meeting.

Tips for dealing with kids

Keep in mind the age and uniqueness of your child

  • Set up a schedule with activities when you need to be on a ‘call’ Reading time, doing a puzzle, art craft, coloring
  • Put a reward system in place for good behavior during times when you are “on” and can’t be interrupted.
  • Have snacks & lunch prepared ahead of time
  • If you’re able have someone help you, split up the day so you can have some focused time
  • Get the kids outside to burn some energy off
  • Help develop your child’s ability to be self-sufficient when it comes to certain things (age, maturity & ability dependent).
  • Have a signal for when you shouldn’t be disturbed unless someone is hurt, bleeding, etc..
  • Have a sign or sticky note on the door to signal you’re busy
  • If it’s too quiet, you know what I mean if you’re a parent, then by all means go check on the kids to see what they are up to…

Things you can do:

  • Have a designated place where you are able to work or at least take conference calls /meetings with minimally distraction
  • Set a work schedule for yourself & communicate it with your boss and team
  • Structure your day
  • Define what starts your “work day” & ends your work day
As an example, I’d scan email on my phone, go out and get a coffee, come home, throw in a load of laundry in the washer then sit down at my laptop and start working. 

I’d take a break and throw the laundry into the dryer, check on the kids then return to work. My next break would be at lunch time. I’d eat, take a walk outside, come in, fold the laundry then log back into work. 

I’d end my day at the same time and shut down my computer.

Just because you are at home doesn’t mean you have to work all the time. Find what works best for you and your family and end your workday. It’ll still be there tomorrow.
  • Do what is most important and a priority
  • Check email only 2x a day

I didn’t always do this. I used to have my email open all day and respond to things in the moment.

When I changed my approach, I was surprised at how much time it freed up for me and how my stress level was lowered. When I’d check my email towards to end of my day, I would start from the bottom up.

I found that most of the items that came in my inbox had resolved themselves. I didn’t need to take action on many of them.

If you have email open all day, you’re probably being reactive rather than focusing on the key things you need to get done.

Tips for keeping sane WFH

  • Use communication tools
  • to communicate & socially interact with people
  • Set boundaries and expectations
    • Such as breaks between back to back calls/meetings
    • When you’ll be on & offline
    • Your availability for meetings
  • Communicate your boundaries
  • Take breaks
  • Turn your devices off at the end of your workday
  • Shut off notifications
  • Get outside; take a fresh air break or sanity break
  • Be organized
  • Just because others on the team are workaholics and choose to work all hours of the day, doesn’t mean you need to.

Filed Under: personal fundamentals, personal leadership, Uncategorized, well-being

by Kim Wilkish

Communicating Changes

One of the most overlooked things when trying to make a change is communicating the change and getting buy in from the stakeholders and those impacted by the change.

People often think that if they said it once then the change was communicated.

7 Times

Studies have shown that we often need to hear things seven different ways before we take the communication in.

If the change is a small one it’s not uncommon for people to assume that you should just move ahead to the change and that it’s no big deal. BUT…

It is a big deal. Change is hard. To change for change sake isn’t effective either.

People need to understand the change.

Why are we changing? What’s the point?

Are we doing something easier or better? How will the change impact me?

I was recently taking a program and the leader decided to change the program. The problem was that it wasn’t communicated well.

A frequently asked questions (FAQ) document was created but it didn’t capture all of the information.

The communication was done in person to one group but the group contained different audiences. The reaction was not pleasant.

People felt they were losing something that they valued.

The reaction could’ve all been avoided.

Start communicating the change in advance. People need time to process changes. Announcing a change and expecting them to do it the next day or week isn’t going to happen with out some education and explaining the value.

Steps to communicate

Communicate the message to each audience as the change impacts them differently.

Explain the value of the change and why it is being done.

Address objections.

Answer the “WIIFM” What’s in it for me question.

Highlight the benefits of the change.

Ending

Address the feeling that people are losing something.

As with every change there is an ending (of the way things were, or how things were done).

The ending usually involves a mourning process or loss of something.

Acknowledge the loss, support people in the transition, honor the history and then move forward.

Ignoring the history or the loss will lead to some backlash and mistrust regarding the change.

Filed Under: change & transition

by Kim Wilkish

Treat Yourself

Do something nice for you

A “treat” is a small pleasure or indulgence that we give to ourselves.

When we give ourselves treats, we feel energized, cared for and contented. It’s a form of self-care. 

Some ideas to treat yourself

  • Take something you would ordinarily do and make it extraordinary
    • Take yourself out to dinner 
    • Order take out and use your best dishes
  • Take a bubble bath
  • Have a glass of champagne
  • Savor a piece of really good chocolate
  • Read a book for pleasure
  • Allow yourself to rest and do nothing.
  • Disconnect and unplug from technology
  • Give yourself the day off (mental day/sick day)
  • Pick or buy yourself flowers
  • Light a candle
  • Go to a favorite place
  • Let the sun shine on your face
  • Use the things you save for special occasions
  • Do something you love and make it the priority of the day

Filed Under: personal leadership, well-being

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